The Anti-Grind Men’s Coach

The Problem with winning the rat Race…

you are still rat, just with a nicer watch

It’s time to be proud of the Man in the Mirror

ABOUT LEE SMART

You’ve built the life you were told to want - career, Income, stability

you followed the rules, achieved what most people consider success, and still feel like something is missing

Now? You’re missing your kid’s soccer games.
You’re arguing with your wife about how “checked out” you’ve become.
You numb out with alcohol, caffeine, porn, or screens.
And underneath it all, you’re quietly asking:

“Is this it?”

It’s not.

I work with high-functioning men who are done running on fumes.
They’ve been the provider. Now they want to be present—with their family, with themselves, with life.

Together, we build something better:
A life that’s fueled by clarity, connection, and fire—not guilt, pressure, or hustle.

Coaching means creating a life that has you proud of the guy you see in the mirror

Get Started

  • 1/ FREE CONSULT

    I don’t do pitchy sales calls.
    We’ll chat like humans. If we click, your first full session is free.

    Quick Chat

  • 2/ The Fired-UP Framework

    Forget formulas. You’re not a machine.
    We start where you are. We dig into what’s actually fueling your life (and what’s draining it).
    And we rebuild from the inside out—one honest insight and intentional action at a time.

    The Fired-Up Framework

  • 3/ a life lit up

    What happens when you stop numbing out and start showing up?

    You reconnect with your kids.
    You fight less with your partner.
    You laugh again.
    You enjoy your work without it owning you.

    It’s not just productivity.
    It’s a life that actually feels like yours.

HONEST FEEDBACK

“Before we started working together, my life was tiresome, taxing, and stressful…

I had fears and hang-ups I wasn’t even interested in conquering because I didn’t think they could be conquered. Smart offers me a fresh take with things I didn't even think of before—and when I put those into action, positive results happen. I'm the happiest I've ever been in my entire life.”

— LUCAS ORSOT, Music Director, Louisiana

Testimonials

  • "One baby step at a time"

    "When I first started working with Lee, I was terrified of speaking on stage. After surviving a rare blood cancer, I discovered, with Lee's help, I want to be the Spark of Hope who gives others going through cancer treatment the will to keep fighting. One baby step at a time I was able to improve my skills and lean into my fear rather than avoiding it. I won the best speaker award, spoke in front of thousands, and had a documentary made about my journey. Lee walked side by side with me the whole way, and his help was invaluable."

    Nick, Cancer Coach and Survivor, Colorado

  • "I can get the direction I need to get the results I want faster and more efficiently."

    "Ive had the pleasure of working with Lee in his group coaching program for the past several months. Lee has the gift of being able to provide clarity. When I get stuck in analysis paralysis, he provides guidance that helps me regain my focus. I also appreciate that he is a straight talker- he doesnt beat around the bush, which means I can get the direction I need to get the results I want faster and more efficiently."

    Sheli Dodson, Live-in Coach, Alaska

  • "dive into why you are stressed...not only relieve it once, but weed it out"

    Lee has the unique ability to really dive into why you are stressed and give you tips and tools to not only relieve it once, but weed it out.

    JP Adkins, Creator - True Awesome Network, Michigan

  • "I always got a good clear understanding"

    "Gives great advice and helped me work through a lot of different problems in a mixture of different things. Anything we would talk about I always got a good clear understanding on feedback from him. I wish I could word it better, but I'm not a word person."

    Gibson Smith, Pro Tinkerer, Louisiana

  • "Lee's willingness to push to the heart of my limits and to help me shine light on my missing self has upped my potential"

    I have worked on self creation, leading people and teams most of my life. Prior to meeting Lee, I was skeptical of Mens work, coaching, and any type of training that wasnt self-motivated and self-taught. Lee’s willingness to push to the heart of my limits and to help me shine light on my missing self has upped my potential in transformative ways. His process is akin to getting a headlamp miles deep inside of a dark cave. My growth has only just begun and Id be blind if I never opened my eyes to his ideas.

    Cansafis Foote, CEO/Founder - UIU, Oakland, CA

  • "a way of getting you to great results"

    I've enjoyed working with Lee; he has a way of getting you to great results. He truly listens and asks the most amazing questions. If you're looking for a structure to guide you out of your current challenges, Lee works with you to find the one that will best serve you. He will call you on the lies you're telling yourself and he's not afraid to say the hard things and ask the hard questions. It's why sessions with him take you somewhere. I appreciate our sessions and highly recommend connecting with Lee if you're looking to make real and lasting change.

    Michelle Aalbers, Self-Healing Catalyst, Minnesota

  • "opportunities to change the right path that you choose"

    Working with Lee has been such an incredible and in depth experience. Ive had the opportunity to work with other coaches and what separates Lee from them is his heart on top of the knowledge. Lees perspective is so unique and warm showing you the opportunities to change the right path that you choose.

    David Chametzky, Author, New York

  • "I never realized how tough life truly is when you're at it alone"

    I always knew I wanted to do great things, but I never realized how tough life truly is when you're at it alone. I'm incredibly grateful to have met Lee. I used to struggle hard to figure out what I actually wanted to do and which path makes the most sense, but in just a few sessions, I gained so much clarity on my life's purpose and I'm genuinely excited for what's ahead for me. One of the best investments (and commitments) I made this year, hands down.

    Linart Seprioto, Writer and Math Educator, Philippines

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